Musings

Just yesterday I was listening to Kings of Leon-Cold Desert and I realized what a soppy mess the whole thing was. Don't get me wrong, I like the song (though its not exactly healthy for me) and I like the band, but it just goes on and on about how nobody carried my load blah blah. The real people you feel sorry for are those people who have lots of sorrows but keep them to themselves. I'm not saying don't tell anyone your troubles. ever, but who wants to be around someone who is sobbing their heart out all the time and whining about how hard their life is,

Really[-(. Emily and I had a little chat about this the other day. so many people in movies stories etc you feel sorry for, Until they let it all out and bohoo there eyes out and say all the bad things thats happened to them in their life, and then suddenly your not sorry for them anymore, yes your life was hard, doesn't mean you have to waste your time sobbing. Emily was telling me about how all her story characters had gone through a lot but had kept it in and never said a word to anyone else about it and that way, you have sympathy for them. So I'm wondering, is it better to just sob on to the people around you about all your problems or to keep it all in almost until you go insane.

I suppose you must have a healthy in between...Which is often very hard to find these days.

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